
There's a moment somewhere around week 30 when the checklists start multiplying. Nappy bag or hospital bag first? Cot or bassinet? Do you really need a wipe warmer? It's a lot.
So here's the guide I wish someone had handed me: everything you actually need before your baby arrives, organised the way real life is organised: out and about, on the road, at home, for you, and for them, plus the buying knowledge that actually matters. Not just what to buy, but what separates a genuinely good version of each item from one that just looks the part.
Once mum is feeling up to it after birth, getting out of the house matters for your sanity as much as the baby's.
Checklist:
A few things worth knowing before you commit:
Suspension – when your pram is fully loaded with 15kgs in the basket and a 10kg child in the seat, you want to make it as easy as possible to steer and push. Look for a brand that prioritises the performance of suspension.
Mesh ventilation, with back support – Look for a seat that has firm back support, with side panels for ventilation so you get the best of both worlds. As a mum, I want to make sure my child is being supported through their development so an ergonomic pram with back support was important to me. However, lots of prams with solid seat backs compromise on ventilation. Look for a pram seat with back support and ventilation panels in the sides and canopy so that in summer your child stays cool, and is happy to sit in the pram for longer periods of time.
A bassinet that shares the same frame as the seat – Baby gear takes up so much space, and some items are only in use for 4 months and then you’re forced to store them for years while you wait to have your next child. Bassinets are so bulky – look for a bassinet that shares the same frame as the seat, so when your baby outgrows the bassinet, you only need to store the fabric, and not the whole thing.
A pram seat that gets taller – I had no idea this existed but now I can’t go back. Some pram seats actually have an extendable seat back. This means when your baby is small, you can have a shorter seat (which allows for a more compact fold and easier storage.) Then, as your child gets taller, you can extend the seat back height and get longer use of your pram. Your toddler will happily sit because they feel comfortable, and you don’t need to buy another pram later because your baby has outgrown it. This is truly a game changer and will give you the best value for your money.
In Australia, prams and strollers sold here are required to meet a mandatory safety standard (based on AS/NZS 2088), which covers things like brake visibility and colour-coding, harness strength and width, protection against strangulation hazards from straps and cords, stability and impact testing, and clear warning labels. A compliant pram should carry this information on its packaging or a permanent label.
It is also essential you perform your own research here. Some safety features are not included in mandatory testing, including safety latches for pram and bassinet folds, colour coding for when a seat or bassinet is locked into place etc. If a fold latch doesn’t have a safety, it could be easily activated accidentally while your child is inside.
Here are my non-negotiables when I shop for a pram:
Some brands test their products against voluntary standards, as well as involuntary which means they go above and beyond to confirm their product is truly safe. If safety is important to you, opt for reputable brands that clearly state meeting both mandatory and voluntary testing, and display INPAA badges across their website.
Safe travel
This is the category where the stakes are highest and the research is most worth doing properly.
What to look for:
Home and nursery
This is the category that grows the most, and can really take over your home. Style here was just as important to me as function because I knew I’d be looking at these pieces constantly.
A few things that matter more than they look like they would:
For mum and dad
It's easy to spend all the prep energy on the baby's gear and forget that you're recovering from birth (or supporting someone who is).
Practical tips:
For baby
It's the category with the most sheer volume of choice, and also the one where fabric quality matters more than most new parents realise.
What "safe fabric" actually means:
The five-minute buying checklist
If you remember nothing else from this guide, check these five things before you buy anything for baby:
None of this needs to be perfect. Every parent's list ends up slightly different once real life gets involved, and that's fine. The goal isn't to tick every box, it's to walk in feeling like you know what you're actually looking at. That's really all "ready" means.
Want to see any of this in person before you decide? Redsbaby runs demonstration days and in-store trials across Australia, and every product page includes real demonstration video and the safety standards it meets because we'd rather you see it and try it than just take our word for it.